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The sky outside my window is completely gray. To say it is overcast would be an understatement. In a place where the sun shines every day, these overcast skies feel particularly oppressive.

I still use a paper calendar. Even though I keep up with my Google calendar when scheduling or organizing, there’s just something about my paper calendar. (I know I’m dating myself here). 

When was the last time you experienced a power outage? Living in a wooded area in central Indiana, power outages where a very real possibility. Wind and ice could bring down limbs or whole trees and with them take out the power lines.

For weeks now, the holiday season has been getting attention. From extended “Black Friday,” sales to the opportunities to attend special musical events, it is all around us.

There’s an old saying that a picture is worth a thousand words. I think there is truth in that saying. For instance, on my desk are some dear pictures of my mom as a girl.

On the windswept prairies of the 1800’s white-out snowstorms could make life dangerous. Conditions could completely block the view from the back door to the barn door – leaving farmers in danger of losing their way in the white out and bitter cold.

Since before Halloween, artificial Christmas trees and more have been on display in retail spaces. Shopping anywhere you can see the indicators of future festivities. But, in your loss experience, you may not be feeling so festive.

Whenever I see the compass, I think of my sister’s hands holding it as she backpacked, kayaked, and canoed the McKenzie River in Canada. She and a friend took on this massive adventure in the summer of 2004.

So many things these days stretch our energy and attention. Following a national election, for instance. Or the unfolding weather catastrophes that have impacted so many.

Our experiences of grief and loss can be confusing. Grief can bring on feelings of sorrow, uncertainty, and regret. When we think of our loved one, we may also discover feelings of tenderness and comfort. Sadness and gladness can be present at the same time.